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The (Inbred Fettler) FLaP
08-11-05, 16:50
When a lady friend signs a letter/email/text with a x or love are they just being friendly or do they have sinister intentions?I have just noticed this recently......Any thoughts.........?

Anne Brown
08-11-05, 16:52
just being friendly

Mike! (now has a comment in brackets)
08-11-05, 16:53
methinks just being politemost of my friends put one or 3, despite me having a girlfriend, even if me and the person have had some... disagreements?

Pimpmaster Jazz
08-11-05, 16:53
Define 'friendly'.

Anne Brown
08-11-05, 16:55
Define 'friendly'."nothing below the waist"

The (Inbred Fettler) FLaP
08-11-05, 16:58
LOL - Good definition Anne.I hadn't really thought about it before, but was recently going through a load of old stuff and found some letters of a lady friend, which started off being signed just her name but after we got to know each other better (NOT in the biblical sense I hasten to add!!) her letters were all signed with love.Interesting......

Alex Woodhead (new psuedo coming soon...)
08-11-05, 16:59
Normal behavior for a lady freind, just got to worry when it's not a lady freind...;0

The (Inbred Fettler) FLaP
08-11-05, 17:01
Fair point Alex.........

Dorian Gra
08-11-05, 17:48
I used to put an x at the end of every txt out of habit, but I stopped when my mates kept thinking I was gay.

Errrmmm Yesss ( Dyl, 69ers still ROCK )
08-11-05, 17:52
Well try to sleep with her and if you get thee where just mates line then you can say, but .....Sorted :)

George T. Badger
08-11-05, 18:00
nothing below the waist"So a tit wank is okay then?"

the DefenderDan(Goog's just jealous)
08-11-05, 18:01
but I stopped when my mates kept thinking I was gay".......you sure it wasnt the handlebar tache, and the crotchless leather trousers :)"

Errrmmm Yesss ( Dyl, 69ers still ROCK )
08-11-05, 18:05
I've slipped into that, normally only text girlies, so X X X the norm, sent it to a mate and scared him without thinking LOL

the DefenderDan(Goog's just jealous)
08-11-05, 18:12
....just dont forget to add at least two XX, i forget a few weeks ago, the GF had the sulks on all day.....i asked why....she replied If you dont know im not going to tell you" *female logic* :)"

Mister Khomenni
08-11-05, 18:12
so what would they put if they were being 'more than friendly'

Errrmmm Yesss ( Dyl, 69ers still ROCK )
08-11-05, 18:16
You can go around in circles for weeks, with that kinda logic Dan!!!I had this girl, I hadn't asked her out was about to though, and she kicked me in the bollox for something I've not done, that really made me want to.FREAK !!!!Ohhh and once, my GF thru a strop for 4days, because I'd eyed this very sexy girl up and down, which I'd forgotten already, I thought she knew I'd got the barmaids number, good job I never admit to anything or what LOL

the DefenderDan(Goog's just jealous)
08-11-05, 18:17
'more than friendly'......fancy a screw?".....normally makes the point"

Vegeeta
08-11-05, 19:11
The trouble with women is that they're unpredictable.Just ignore it.

Blarn E Stone
08-11-05, 19:53
Ask a lassFancy a fkuc?"if she says yes you are sorted, if no say"Do you mind lying down while I have one?"if she says yes you are sorted, if no say"I suppose a blow job is out of the question?"I had a friend who used this technique (?), I was with him once and wanted the ground to swallow me but...his delivery was such it got him talking and within striking distance of a chance.I'm not sure I'm able to do it though"

Errrmmm Yesss ( Dyl, 69ers still ROCK )
08-11-05, 20:38
I've seen it aswell, not quite my style but 50% of the time they pulled and got laid, not going to vouch for the quality / sanity of some of the girls though, uggg

Mike! (now has a comment in brackets)
08-11-05, 21:43
i just got 3x's from a friend, and although we're good friends, i'm fairly sure that's all she intendsbut what do you reply with, if a guy puts 3, or even 1 to a friend, is it done? i just replied with a goodnight, but what were i sposed to do!

Errrmmm Yesss ( Dyl, 69ers still ROCK )
08-11-05, 21:48
3x's are considered polite, if you get to 6+ then your game on.Mike, give it up never going to happen :)

the DefenderDan(Goog's just jealous)
08-11-05, 21:58
but what do you reply with, if a guy puts 3".......take off your sailor costume and run for the hills!"

Mike! (now has a comment in brackets)
08-11-05, 21:58
what?i already have a girlfriend, this is just a friend!

Sinead
08-11-05, 22:00
3 x's are polite and friendly.5 x's mean you luck's in!;)

Dorian Gra
08-11-05, 22:02
you sure it wasnt the handlebar tache, and the crotchless leather trousers "If i had a tache and trousers like that I'd be walking around saying "I've come to fix you pipes" in a german accent. =)btw hope thats a joke and not some sort of fantasy there dan =p"

the DefenderDan(Goog's just jealous)
08-11-05, 22:04
None of my guy mates put X's at the end of a txt, having said that one of them has man straightners and a hairdryer....queer as elton john tap dancin!It can be dorian? that an invitation? :)

Errrmmm Yesss ( Dyl, 69ers still ROCK )
08-11-05, 22:09
Mike Really, seriously, really really.Dan thats Gayist of you, just bend over and let them do as they like.

Dan (Dirtyrider)
08-11-05, 22:15
3x = game on i reckon

Dan (Dirtyrider)
08-11-05, 22:16
anne !!!!!!!!:O)

Arnold Brocklethwaite-Jones (spouting crap!)
08-11-05, 22:21
3 X's means she wants you to stick it up her arse

Errrmmm Yesss ( Dyl, 69ers still ROCK )
08-11-05, 22:25
With Pete on that I do have to Agree totally, and she'll love it to.

Sinead
08-11-05, 22:42
you men you just don't get it.That means most of my male friends now think I want to be bummed! What a scary thought :$

Dan (Dirtyrider)
08-11-05, 22:44
come on we have more chance of cracking the da vinci code than deciphering womens texts, the people that text me 3 generally suck my face off when were all pished up, adding more x's means another word in your phone dictionary

Sinead
08-11-05, 22:46
lol I must start being careful with my x's ;)

Dan (Dirtyrider)
08-11-05, 22:48
glad to helpDan xxx

Sinead
08-11-05, 22:52
Not a problem Sinead x ;)

Dan (Dirtyrider)
08-11-05, 22:57
:0(

Sinead
08-11-05, 23:04
lol, better to be stingy with my x's from now on I think.

Errrmmm Yesss ( Dyl, 69ers still ROCK )
08-11-05, 23:16
To late sinner, already saved them all up going get me some bum luvin :)

Sinead
08-11-05, 23:20
lol piss off Dylan, all meant in a friendly manner :)

Errrmmm Yesss ( Dyl, 69ers still ROCK )
08-11-05, 23:24
no no no you can't just do a :) " and get away with that, you've offended me, my family, my 3 cats and 4 rats, and I'm going to KILL you.Have a nice day!!!"

Sinead
08-11-05, 23:27
scary dylan!I'll kick yer ass anyway, Im 6ft 6 and built like a brick sh*t house, don't mess

Errrmmm Yesss ( Dyl, 69ers still ROCK )
08-11-05, 23:28
Mommmy protect me!!!!!!! I'm SO SO SO SO SO SO SO Sorry!!!!!

Sinead
08-11-05, 23:31
so you should be, now back in your cage young man!

Mustrum Ridcully - Kicking Against The Pricks
09-11-05, 08:39
Back on topic, I think you'll find that it rather depends on the individual FLaP - unhelpful I know! Generally love" or "xxx" from a girl doesn't mean the same as it would if it was a bloke writing/texting to a girl."

The (Inbred Fettler) FLaP
09-11-05, 08:44
Thanks Mustrum, some sense at last. I hear what you are saying, it is one of those things that has been perplexing me for years - it is definately true that men are from mars and women from venus eh......!I actually texted a friend that last night and I think she has taken offence as she hasn't texted back.Probably is very individual as well. i had an e-mail from a friend yesterday (female), she is doing an MSc and wanted some info and signed her name with 4 x's.........definately wanted something (info about soil erosion to be precise..!)makes me think about another thread topic actually.Cheers Mustrum, ship of sanity in a sea of fools......;-)

Mustrum Ridcully - Kicking Against The Pricks
09-11-05, 08:46
I'm sorry, I apologise profoundly for inadvertently posting something sensible - I'll try not to let it happen again :)

The (Inbred Fettler) FLaP
09-11-05, 08:47
thats allright, fly in the face of convention........

FLaP
10-11-05, 08:20
Hey Mustrum, any pearls of wisdom today please.....ActuallybI just wanted the top three threads to have my name on them......Meglomania - never heard of it...!

Mustrum Ridcully - Kicking Against The Pricks
10-11-05, 08:58
Hmmm.. words of wisdom....Well you spelt megalomania incorrectly .......:)

FLaP
10-11-05, 09:04
Thanks - I'm a scientist not an artist!! My spell checker doesn't have that word for some reason....!!!!!Plus if you read my post I spelt actually in a rather peculiar way as well

John barbedwire
10-11-05, 11:36
back to the subject, I think of it as air kisses" - you know "mwah, daahling" kind of thing.Acceptable for French blokes to other French blokes?"

FLaP
10-11-05, 13:20
Acceptable for effeminate french blokes to other effeminate french blokes I imagine!!!!!

JohnG
10-11-05, 13:27
#blows everybody a kiss#

FLaP
10-11-05, 13:36
Catches it and throws it to the ground and sets fire to it........!*Thats the done thing isn't it.......?

Mustrum Ridcully - Kicking Against The Pricks
10-11-05, 14:31
No FLaP, you're thinking of lamb :)

John barbedwire
10-11-05, 14:39
I thought it was cars ;-)

FLaP
10-11-05, 14:39
Mustrum - I'm from Wales - I'm ALWAYS thinking about lambs......!

Mustrum Ridcully - Kicking Against The Pricks
10-11-05, 19:31
*snorts with laughter and splutters tea all over the laptop*Now look what you made me do!

FLaP
11-11-05, 16:27
lol sorry mustrum, hope it doesn't cause long term damage.....!